Emmalin Age: 7.5

Emmalin Age: 7.5

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

CARVING PUMPKINS AND HALLOWEEN 2010

Painting the Pumkin with Mommy
It's a tradition for my sister's family and my family to get together with my mom and dad and carve pumpkins. We have so much fun!

Cutest Little Piggy In Town!


This year for Halloween, Emmalin was a pig! I don't believe in spending a lot of money of a costume that she will only be wearing for a couple of hours, and so I always find Emmalin's at a second hand store. I have to say that Emmalin was, by far, the cutest pig ever! She looked so cute in her costume and most of the time she really didn't mind the pig hat.

Hallie, Hoyt, Papa, Emmalin and Haden
It's also a tradition for us to go "trick-or-treating" with Emmalin's cousins Haden, Hallie and Hoyt. They were, by far, the cutest police man, snow white, and dinosaur ever too! We had a great time!

2ND BIRTHDAY

Em and Papa Knute
I can't believe that it's time for my baby girl to be turning two already!  I didn't fully understand what everyone meant when they would say "time flys" until I had Emmalin.  To me, she should only be about 6 months old.  Anyway...for Em's birthday this  year, we decided to just do things with our family.  On Emmalin's actual birthday we just had my mom, dad, grandpa, and sister (with her kids) over to eat dinner and haD some cupcakes. 
Daddy and Em on the Slide!

Mommy and Emmalin

The next day we had Emmalin's birthday party at the park.  It was a little cool and REALLY windy, but a great day!  We cooked out burgers, had cupcakes and just hung out with some more family.  Emmalin got to go on a slide and park swing for the first time.  SHE LOVED IT!!!  It is something we will be doing more often from now on!! 
"Grandmo", Em,  Haden, & Hallie 

Our goals for this year are head control and prop sitting independently!  We'll keep you posted!
                        
                     HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMMALIN

HIPPOTHERAPY

Hippotherapy is a type of therapy that is done on a horse (or a pony named Freckles in Emmalin's case). While the child is riding on the horse there is a physical, occupational, or speech therapist on one side of the child working with them the entire time they are on the horse. There is also a volunteer that is guiding the horse and another volunteer that is on the other side of the horse (opposite of the therapist) holding the child the entire time it's on the horse. Most sessions are an hour. The child is typically 45 minutes on the horse and the other 15 minutes is used for mounting and dismounting the horse. What we are hoping Emmalin will gain from hippotherapy is core strength and head control. These are two areas that are very important for obvious reason. Since Emmalin does not walk yet, the movement from the horse is also very important for Emmalin. Emmalin loves to be moving all the time (her body craves it since she doesn't move very much on her own), so this is a great way for her to be able to get that movement that she needs while doing a little physical therapy.
Emmalin Riding Freckles!  What A Big Girl!

On October, 26th, Emmalin had the amazing opportunity to start Hippotherapy at a wonderful place called Dynamic Strides (in Republic, MO - close to I-44). She does it with a physical therapist on one side named Marge. I am on her other side as her holder and then a lady named Barbie is Emmalin's pony guider. The pony's name is Freckles (and he likes to be fed carrots after our session). Emmalin will get to go to hippotherapy once a week until the end of November and then it will start up again around March, 2011. So far, Emmalin has done pretty well and seems to like it (for the most part). She had her 2nd week last week and she fell asleep after the 3rd lap. I couldn't wake her up for anything, so we just walked her around for 30 minutes and called it good. It was still great for Emmalin's body to get the movement from the horse, even if she was asleep.

MEDICAID FOR DISABLED CHILDREN

*It was brought to my attention tonight that I have not been updating this blog a lot here lately and that I needed to post some new things. Sorry about all of this! There has been a whole lot going on and I haven't had a whole lot of time to type on here. I am going to try to catch everyone back up!!*


About 3 weeks after we had Em's Cartoons Benefit, I received a very important letter in the mail. It was a letter that stated that a secondary insurance that I had applied for back in April of this year for Emmalin, Medicaid for Disabled Children, had been approved. I couldn't believe it! I just start crying. This single letter had changed our lives forever (or at least until March 2012 when we will have to apply for it again). What this letter means is that people will still bill our primary insurance first (through Jarrad's work) for all of Emmalin’s things but then instead of billing us, they will then bill MoHealth.net (Medicaid for Disabled Children) our secondary insurance. So we really shouldn't have to pay anymore medical bills (besides co-pays), prescriptions (except for the Canada one that insurance never covered), parts of therapies (at the Meyer Center), and equipment (wheel chairs, leg braces, vests for trunk support and so on).

This is beyond HUGE for us! With MoHealth.net, Emmalin is now covered to have one hour everyday of PT, OT, and feeding therapy.

Before we got this, in Em's therapy, we were paying (of course after our 500 deductible before anything else) 20% of 30 weeks (twice a week) and then 100% of everything after that. We had raised $6,900 the night of the Cartoons benefit and to be honest, I wasn't 100% sure it was going to cover all of Emmalin's therapy costs for the year.

We went to see Emmalin's neurologist, Dr. Weisenberg, in September and she had said that Emmalin needed to be in more therapy. All I could think of was that we were doing the best that we could with the money we had (knowing that she was going to the Meyer Center 2 days a weeks -one day OT, and the other day PT and feeding therapy). As soon as I got that letter stating Emmalin had the secondary insurance, I called the next day to increase her therapy sessions to twice a week for OT and PT. She was also able to start water therapy at the Meyer Center because it was covered under the PT - one hour a week.

Now we can use the money that we raised to go for other thing that she needs, that are still very necessary! Like trying “extra-curricular therapies" (Hippotherapy, music therapy, craniosacral therapy) to see what she likes and what works best. We can also try the intensive therapy which is 3 weeks for 3 hours a day. It is $3,500 for the 3 week session and that doesn't include the hotel! I have been told that in intensive therapy, a child can possibly grasp in 3 weeks (developmentally) what it would normally take them to 6 months to learn. We also still have about $150 a month in Pediasure with Fiber for Emmalin's main source of food. And of course there are still some travel costs for all of our St. Louis trips. So all this is being said, yes, we still have a lot of places for this money to be going, but now we actually have the opportunity to give Emmalin everything that she needs, instead of the bare necessities (especially therapy wise). So just for future reference, this is what we will be raising money for in future benefits!


We feel so lucky and so blessed to have finally qualified for Medicaid for Disabled Children for a secondary insurance! Like I said before, it has truly changed our lives!

Monday, November 8, 2010

A BLAST FROM THE PAST

Tonight was the benefit night at McAlister’s (in Nixa). All day I was running around like crazy doing last minute errands, trying to get poster boards done, finishing flyers, putting photos in a photo album and so on. Yes, I could have chosen to do some of these things (or all of these things) before today, but I’m a procrastinator and so it was all happening today. As I was running around, I notice that I have some boxes and a big yellow envelope on my porch. I did not have time to look at any of it, so I threw everything inside and ran out the door.


When I got home from McAlister’s tonight (which went amazing by the way), I ran across the big yellow envelope.  It was from a woman that I had gone to high school with. A while ago she had asked me a little about Emmalin’s diagnosis and for my address. I gave my address to her and didn’t think any more about it. So I open up this envelope from her and find a smaller envelope inside that says “open at benefit on November 8th. Knowing that the benefit had just ended, I decided to open it right then. Inside, there are several different pieces of paper. I pull the first one out and it is a note from the same woman stating that after our conversation (when she asked the questions about Emmalin), it was heavy on her heart to do something to help. So she took it upon herself and contacted some of the girls that we went to high school with and she said she asked them to read the blog. She then explained to me that they wanted to help too. And sure enough, I found 9 different notes, cards and letters from 9 different women (that now live all over the United States). These were all women that when I was younger, I would go over to their houses and play. Most of them I haven’t even talked to since I was in school.

To top it all off, with each note, card or letter there was a check from each of them. Money that they worked hard for and selflessly decided to donate to help my daughter and family. I was BLOWN AWAY by all of this! It was all SO unexpected and it caught me completely off guard! I immediately just started crying.  I still can’t find the words that can express how much I appreciate the thoughtfulness, kindness, and extreme generosity from these 9 amazing women!

To the 9 AMAZING women who went completely above and beyond (especially to the one that pulled this all together), thank you from the bottom of my heart! You will truly never know how much your kindness and generosity has touched me!



                                                                      GOD IS GOOD!

Sunday, October 3, 2010

CDKL5-Journey of Hope Benefit Video

CARTOONS BENEFIT

Wow!  Last night was the benefit at Cartoons.  I have to say that I was BLOWN AWAY by our turn out!  I never dreamed that we would have that many people there!  It was absolutely amazing!!!  We are so blessed to have so many people that love our family and our daughter!  Thank you  to everyone who helped out in any way and thank you also to the everyone who came to support us!  Because of every single person that was involved, we were able to make our benefit such a HUGE success!  I am working on posting some pictures from the benefit so make sure to check them out (they will be on the right side column). 
I can definitely say that we will be doing this one again next year and the same place ( I will keep you posted when we get the exact date and times).  I hope to see everyone again next year!  Thanks again for everyone's support! 
                                                            GOD IS SO GOOD!